TMI…I need some love.
Sometimes, when your down, you just need to ask for love. I don’t believe in expecting people to have some sort of sixth sense about when my life has taken a downturn. And I’m not ashamed about asking for appreciation.
I just found out that I don’t get to do something I really want to do. I’m disappointed and I’m sad. And there is nothing I can do about it accept try to get over it.
So I’m just gonna go for it and be needy. Because I’m having a bad day. And right about now I could use the people in my community telling me that I do good. That they appreciate my work. That they recognize how I make an effort to make them feel supported.
Let’s exchange a little mutual admiration here. Give me a little love and I’ll give you some right back!
*hugs*
I think you are an awesome and articulate woman who obviously thinks deeply and provides us all with a lot of food for though. You are able to manifest your sense of social justice in your Fat Acceptance activism and your creativity in your writing. You obviously have strong senses of persistance and tenacity or you wouldn’t be either a FA advocate or a writer!
*more hugs*
Always here if you want to pour it out to someone on the other side of the world!
Bri -
I admire how much you’ve contributed to FA by keeping up the Fatosphere feed and I respect the way you defend us fatties and our right not to be discriminated against. You have such a great heart and I feel like I get a chance to see that in your writing.
It’s awesome to know you and thanks for helping make me feel better.
Eliz
That should read ‘food for thought’ not food for though
I’m sorry you don’t get to do what you really wanted - that sucks big time. But I can tell you that I do appreciate all you’ve done for FFF, and I love reading what you’ve written. I always come away with something to think about, and sometimes a different way to think about things. Thank you for all of that.
Vesta44-
I feel like your my partner in crime when it comes to delving into the facts. I love reading your comments and I often feel like I get so see glimpses into your life through what you share with us.
You’ve made me feel fierce and militant about WLS. You gave me insight into just how damaging it can be and it’s hard for me, now, to think of it casually. Much as I believe in body autonomy, I want people to understand exactly what their signing up for…and that feeling like I need to get in their face about WLS is totally inspired by you.
Thank you for being here for me when I’m down. I greatly appreciate your words.
Eliz
Vesta44-
Let me amend that a bit. Maybe “get in their face” is too strong a wording if talking of strangers…although I think I would “get in their face” of my friends or family at least once to make sure they are thoroughly informed about the choice of WLS.
I’ll add my voice to the chorus; what you’ve done for FFF with Shannon is fantastic. Thank you for your posts and all that you do. I’m sorry that you can’t do what you want but maybe something else will come along that’s equally good.
JeninCanada -
I remember when I first stumbled across your blog. And I distinctly remember thinking, “I really hope this one keeps it up, cause I like what she has to say.” Not only did you keep it up but you came to join us on FFF. How awesome is that!
As an on-and-off aspiring playwright, your my theatre hero. You were in an actual production of the Vagina Monologues. That is so cool.
Thank you so much for adding you “voice to the chorus” to help me feel better.
Eliz
Hugs to you! I think you are a fabulous person and I love your writing and the thought you clearly put into your work.
Two words… You Rock!!!
statisticalfreak -
You are my girl-on-wheels hero! I can’t tell you how amazing and awesome I think it is that you do roller derby. But, more importantly, you share so much with us on FFF. Your willingness to give us a glimpse into your life and your thoughts is inspirational.
I appreciate your willingness to see from others perspectives. Your empathy continually impresses me. Thank you so much for helping me feel better.
Eliz
Elizebeth,
You know how much I love and appreciate the work you have done for FFFs. Your technical wizardry is so impressive and I can’t wait until you start churning out FierceFatties 2.0 because I know it’s going to blow our collective fucking minds. You’re dedication and reliability have been one of the cornerstones of FFFs since the beginning and I rely on your judgment, your independence and your prolific contributions as integral to sustaining this behemoth. And the fact that you are doing all of this AND cranking out a book of your own AND planning another? Shit, I thought I was busy, but you’re like the Woody Allen of Fat Acceptance (sans creepy incestuous insinuations).
And if this is the thing with the thing, I’ll see if I can work my magic.
Peace,
Shannon
Shannon -
I love your ferocity and passion. And the way it comes out through your writing. You have written some really incredible and moving words about Fat Acceptance. I’m impressed by your tenacity and I really appreciate the chance to work with you.
Your my fierce fattie hero. I really think my life is better knowing you. Thank you.
Eliz
(((((( HUGS TO YOU ELIZABETH )))))
I don’t know you very well, yet, But believe me, I know a ‘good egg’ when I see/read one!
Don’t ever be afraid to reach out to get a hug from someone, because more than likely that someone needs a hug just like you!!
One good thing about Bad Days? They end, and the Good Days roll right on back to ya.
Peace and Blessings-
Fab@54
Fab@54 -
We’re just getting to know each other, so I don’t have any personal way to say how much I appreciate you…but I really appreciate the hugs and I totally think your right!
It’s just one bad day and tomorrow will be better. You are wise in your words and I’m looking forward to seeing more of them and learning more about you.
Eliz
You guys are AWESOME. This is exactly what I needed. I’m starting to feel less like the world sucks and I’m getting a little more focused on the blessings I have around me.
Thanks, again.
Eliz
Damn, I can’t believe I missed this!
Elizabeth, you are a woman on fire (not literally of course) and your thought provoking and eloquent prose makes me so glad I know you and read you.
You never need to worry because your fff fanclub is always here!
Happy 4th from poolside!
dufmanno -
I’m sure you hear this all the time, but your hilarious. If I’m not laughing outright at the playful and irreverent, then I’m probably smiling. Having someone around that makes you smile is a pretty incredible thing.
And yet, at the very same time, the posts you write are often incredibly thoughtful and insightful…you give great share. Your a treasure on many fronts.
Your encouragement is appreciated (us writers ALWAYS like to know we have fans) and I hope you have a great 4th!
Eliz
Hi there! I am new to FFF, but I tell ya, I am in an anxiety ridden environment right now, and after reading one of your posts earlier, I became very calm and thought “If I could just be with these people rather than the ones I am with right now, I’d be totally at peace.” I look forward to reading more posts on here, and if you’ll take a cyber hug from a strange, well here it is. <>
Welcome to the club, Jennifer. I’m so glad you feel comfortable and cozy here. If you ever need to vent, feel free.
I hope your worries are resolved soon!
Peaec,
Shannon
Jennifer Vaughn -
I totally welcome the cyber hug and I’m sad that your in an “anxiety ridden environment right now.” I look forward to getting to know you better and I hope that being a part of our online community will continue to give you some peace, even if it’s only a small escape from the frustrations of your real life.
Thank’s for being a part of our little love in. I greatly appreciate it.
Eliz